Over the next seven days, my posts are going to be focused on Tom and I’s upcoming 30th anniversary. At this point back in 1992, we were getting ready for our wedding. A lot of it is a blur now. I spent our 10th anniversary in the hospital having just had a hysterectomy. Our 20th was spent at a bed and breakfast. I’ll be spending our 30th alone and celebrating with my  memories.

One of the ways I plan to deal with my feelings on this is to write some posts over the next several days. The other way is that we are meeting for lunch on Sunday to celebrate and honor the day.

I would appreciate good thoughts and prayers for me this week. The anniversaries and the birthdays and the everydays are hard. But this is a biggy. I have so much to be thankful for and I am working to focus on that, but I can’t deny my emotions. Writing about them and talking about them helps me work through them. Thanks to those of you who are willing to listen and read. You are one of the many things that I am thankful for everyday.


Christina · December 6, 2022 at 6:15 am

Big hugs and lots of prayers for you as you enter this season on your own. It’s definitely not fair. I think writing is such a great way to work through some of it. And having people to listen and lean on is good too. So we are here for you.

Rae · December 6, 2022 at 12:32 pm

LOVE THIS PHOTO! Can see the love and care you have for each other! He’s always a part of our lives. Miss him always.

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